To the mouth that never stops running: the good news is you get to do what you like to do best, listen to yourself talk. The bad news is no one else will listen to a mouth that never stops pouring out the automatic, hyper-stimulated opinions that occur spontaneously and ceaselessly within the confines of an unattended mind.
Learn to only express every one hundredth thought that happens to you without any effort on your part or else live in a nightmare world filled exclusively with your own noise.
Think about this: no one is pushing you away because you insistently tell them intelligent and important things, quite the opposite.
Make an effort to learn how to say something intelligent and then only say intelligent, well thought out things sparingly, and eventually people will come to you.
You can't follow this advice because you have no self-control (because your vanity is out of control) and so you doom yourself to follow the misguided instructions coming from your own warped mind.
When you hear another voice speaking make an effort to shut up and think, rather than as you typically do now: thoughtlessly open your automatic mouth and let the noise pour out.
I only just saw your post today on the first of October. I thank you for it. There's a lot of truth in it. Sometimes I'm ever so arrogant it's sick and yet sometimes I'm ever so sweet, brilliant and loving and you never acknowledge it so I'll keep the half of your vision knowing the other half is unperceived even by you.
Still, thank you for bothering to write.
Your critics are as welcome as you. We are not pretending to be perfect here but to be here with all our imperfections without fear of addressing them so that we can better balance our selves after years of no communication in the Fellowship cult and in fact, in the cult of our times in which people mostly communicate conditioned by class, education, nationality and other such separating conditions.
If communicating as humans means tearing down each other's vanity and what ever else is stopping us, let's tear it down gently so that we can survive!
Elena
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