i don’t suppose you actually tried the suggested exercise… i know you are so bizzy with much more important things and all…. really elena, the next time, and every time you are conjuring up another link in your vicious circle with “ton” in mind, you should do the mirror exercise i suggested before you post what you’ve written. reflect your words and ideas back on yourself elena, you’ll find that it’ll do you and others a world of good. what are you afraid of ? there is nothing to fear in this exercise, are you afraid of seeing yourself for who you truly are? what do you have to lose? it will only take a few minutes from your “precious work.” you seem to have such a fondness for words; i can think of a couple of words that perfectly describe your post above here and your general attitude… and since these words describe you so well, you should become more familiar:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/netdict/glib
Showing disregard, indicating rejection, serving to dismiss
en.wiktionary.org/wiki/dismissive
dismissiveness – a form of denial, characterized by either passively showing indifference or disregard, or actively dismissing or rejecting ideas or evidence en.wiktionary.org/wiki/dismissiveness
dismissively – In a dismissive manner en.wiktionary.org/wiki/dismissively
My Dear Ton, As moderator of this blog, I remind you that Elena is not the subject of this blog no matter how interesting you might find her. I think you've expressed your unique point of view to her so many times and she has responded to it acknowledging what you are saying but not agreeing with what you are saying. Can you take the fact that neither of you agree and you can still both participate here? The spirit of this blog is not that you come to an agreement but that you each offer what you believe to be true. Your truth about Elena is welcome, it has been heard. What Elena is inviting you to consider is offering a wider spectrum of your self than the limited subject of Elena's persona or what you consider her illness or sickness, etc. In expressing her boredom what she meant was that there are marvelous subjects out there on which to dialogue and if you can't dialogue about anything else, your repetitions are unnecessary. Something that would be of enormous help to the discussion would be if you were able to move from the personality sphere into the public sphere. This is a Public Forum and the aim is not to attack people personally but to have a dialogue in which the participants can reference themselves in. In allowing their points of view to communicate with others, the participants can then draw understanding on themselves. That is a much healthier process than labeling each other with negative adjectives. Elena's aim in these blogs has been the separation of state and religion and every post that she picks from other authors is connected to understanding that problem and how it has lived itself out in our world today. What is your aim Ton?
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